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Sandra's avatar

It sounds as if you have described my whole life and I appreciate finally being seen. The fun part is calling it ADHD from the outset is flawed thinking- it is not a deficit, or a disorder- and in women generally not even hyperactive- it is a superpower and a different way of thinking about life. If seen as a positive rather than a negative, a gift to be supported rather that pathologised, so much more could have been accomplished without shame.Unrecognized potential results ultimately in depression or rejection, lost opportunities- because- why even bother?

Medical research doesn't want to fund it simply because it was recognized as a problem women have,as we well know if it had have been for or about men, there would have been funding. It is still such a shame that the concern for the wellbeing of half of society is just not there.

Jenn's avatar

When is the medical establishment, the research establishment, the whole GODDAMN world-going to stop treating women like we are not relevant to society? You just described my entire life. And not once has the female-bodied primary care doctor I've seen for 25 years recognized that I have ADHD. Of course, she also missed the h-EDS and lipedema that I fought her to diagnose. I hate it here.

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